fix(cli): honor update restart overrides

src/cli/update-cli/update-command.ts

@@ -400,9 +400,10 @@ async function maybeRestartService(params: {
 
     try {
       let restarted = false;
+      let restartInitiated = false;
       if (params.restartScriptPath) {
         await runRestartScript(params.restartScriptPath);
-        restarted = true;
+        restartInitiated = true;
       } else {
         restarted = await runDaemonRestart();
       }
@@ -423,6 +424,16 @@ async function maybeRestartService(params: {
           delete process.env.OPENCLAW_UPDATE_IN_PROGRESS;
         }
       }
+
+      if (!params.opts.json && restartInitiated) {
+        defaultRuntime.log(theme.success("Daemon restart initiated."));
+        defaultRuntime.log(
+          theme.muted(
+            `Verify with \`${replaceCliName(formatCliCommand("openclaw gateway status"), CLI_NAME)}\` once the gateway is back.`,
+          ),
+        );
+        defaultRuntime.log("");
+      }
     } catch (err) {
       if (!params.opts.json) {
         defaultRuntime.log(theme.warn(`Daemon restart failed: ${String(err)}`));